SEX IS GOOD
Who says sex is bad? if not for sex you and I won’t be alive today. it takes sex for people to bring forth offspring and extend the generation. besides, the creator of the universe himself created sex. God uses this to multiply his kinds on earth. So when you involve in sex, you are carrying out the purpose of God, but wait a minute and consider the definition below, take note of the underline words:
Sex is the covenant exchange of life, love and pleasure between the man and the woman in the marriage environment for the purpose of unity, procreation and the expression of marital love. (Praise Fowowe, 2010).
From the above definition, it is clear that sex is not physical but a covenant between the male and the female. We must also be aware that it has environment and is for a purpose. The environment for sex is only marriage environment. If two people are now engage in a sexual intercourse before marriage, it is not proper and turn sex to bad instead of good. There are a lot of dangers and consequences attached to this, sex before marriage is not save, and it is very dangerous. Most often, anyone who is involved in sex before marriage do have more than one partner and promiscuous. Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Some of the dangers/consequences are:
- It is the number one source of STDS: Statistics prove that pre-marital and indiscriminate sex increases the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases e.g. herpes, aids E.T.C.
2. It makes having a long term relationship more difficult: Sex is highly emotional experience at least it ought to be. Having sex outside of the committed relationship of marriage damages us emotionally and makes having a future lasting and committed relationship more difficult and for some impossible.
3. It makes sex as an expression of love, empty: Someone who only seeks to have sex without the emotional impact of it, only wants the physical ride but not the expression of love that is meant to go with it. Today they profess love, tomorrow it is disappointment. Love has been cheapened to them and often becomes empty.Read More »